Parenthood is a beautiful, chaotic ride. Between chasing toddlers, juggling work deadlines, and trying to remember the last time you had a quiet cup of coffee, it’s easy to feel isolated.
We’ve all heard the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” But for many of us, finding that village feels like a daunting, almost mythical task.
In the latest episode of Caffeinated Chaos, I’m diving deep into the reality of making parent friends as an adult. Spoiler: it’s harder than it looks, but it’s not impossible!
Why Finding Your Village Feels So Hard
Picture this: you join a local mom group, excited to meet your people. You walk in, and suddenly, it feels like high school cafeteria all over again. Everyone seems to know each other, and you’re the new kid holding your metaphorical lunch tray, wondering where to sit.
But here’s the truth—it only takes one connection to start building your village. That one person you bond with over the awkwardness of it all might just become your go-to for late-night vent sessions, parenting advice, and belly laughs.
3 Practical Ways to Build Your Village
Whether you’re balancing snack time and spreadsheets or navigating the chaos of entrepreneurship, these tips will help you connect with others who get it:
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Show Up Consistently
Whether it’s a weekly library storytime, a local Facebook group, or a park playdate, consistency matters. The more often you show up, the more familiar faces you’ll see, and those casual “hellos” will eventually turn into deeper conversations. -
Lead with Vulnerability
Drop the “I’m fine” mask. Instead, share the real stuff—like how you barely made it out the door because of your toddler’s epic meltdown. Vulnerability invites connection and shows others that it’s okay to let their guard down too. -
Combine Business and Friendship
If you’re a parentpreneur like me, use your business to create connections. Host a workshop, partner with another parentpreneur, or chat about your business at drop-offs. It’s not just networking—it’s about building relationships with people who understand your world.
A Reminder About Friendships
Friendships look different in every season of life. Some days, it’s texting a friend you haven’t seen in months. Other times, it’s forging a new bond over a shared laugh at the park. Whatever it looks like for you, remember: you’re not alone.
At Caffeinated Chaos, we’re here to be part of your village too. This podcast is your space to laugh, learn, and feel seen in the wild world of parenting and entrepreneurship.
Join the Conversation with Sip & Share
I’m thrilled to announce a brand-new segment on the podcast: Sip & Share! This is your chance to share your chaotic parenting moments, tips, or advice. I’ll read your stories on future episodes—anonymously if you prefer.
Listen and Share
If this post (or the podcast episode) resonated with you, I’d love it if you:
- Share it with your fellow parent friends who could use a village of their own.
- Leave a review of the podcast—it helps us grow our community.
- Follow the podcast for more episodes about juggling business, parenting, and everything in between.
Let’s build our village, one connection at a time.